The beginning of the year is not a new page.
It is a more intimate return to yourself.
At the start of every year, the same movement appears:
resolutions, promises, lists of goals.
As if something in us needs to be fixed.
As if we must become someone else to deserve more.
But life does not ask you to transform yourself.
It simply invites you to return.
To return to yourself.
To your awareness.
To that silent presence within you
that you already know,
but sometimes leave behind.
It is not time that exhausts us.
It is the absence from ourselves.
We do not burn out because years pass,
but because we move through them without being present.
The greatest violation today
is not what happens outside,
but what occurs when a human being abandons themselves inwardly.
When they live on autopilot.
When they constantly adapt.
When they suffocate their intuition and place fear above truth.
That is where suffering begins.
And that is where time loses its integrity.
Nothing external will come to save you.
Not a relationship.
Not a tool.
Not a method.
Not even a new year.
What truly transforms a life
is the level of consciousness with which you enter what you live.
Everything in this world is neutral.
Symbols. Experiences. Relationships.
They do not heal. They do not wound.
They reveal.
They reveal what you are ready to see.
And they respond precisely to the level of presence you embody.
The danger is never in the experience itself.
It appears when we engage with it from a fragmented consciousness,
loaded with fear, attachment, or the need for validation.
The beginning of the year is not a moment of pressure.
It is a moment of truth.
This year does not need rigid strategies,
nor battles against yourself.
It only needs one sincere question:
Where have I abandoned myself?
And where is it time to return?
Returning does not mean being perfect.
Returning means being present.
Present in your body.
Present in your emotions.
Present with what you feel, without escaping it.
Relationships transform
when your relationship with yourself changes.
Many start the year asking:
“What will happen in my relationship?”
But the real question is elsewhere:
“What is my relationship with myself?”
When you reconcile with yourself:
– you stop seeking love where it cannot be given
– you stop interpreting signs through fear
– you stop betraying your intuition
Then relationships adjust.
Some harmonize.
Others fall away.
And in both cases, something heals.
This year is not about more.
Not more effort.
Not more resistance.
Not more proof to give.
It is about:
– deeper inner honesty
– greater presence
– more accurate boundaries
– more gentleness toward yourself
It is about choosing yourself,
without struggle.
My message to you at the beginning of this year:
Do not enter this year trying to become someone else.
Enter it ready to be yourself.
When you are present,
things stop being complicated.
They align.
The new year does not begin on a calendar.
It begins at the precise moment you return to yourself.
And may each year find you…
a little closer.
